Have you ever felt as though you have been backed into a corner and shown in slow motion what can go wrong in your life does go wrong?
When we reach points of extreme contrast in our lives, this is here to show us many things. Firstly, there is a lesson that teaches us something needs to be changed. Secondly, and I find this is very true to me, that we need to up our game.
We outgrow people and situations in our lives. It’s not that we don’t care about these things anymore, it is more from the fact that they have fulfilled our learning to that point and we are simply expanding at a faster rate than the physical circumstances of our lives can keep up with.
In conjunction to this, there is frequently an adjustment to your own personal values and standards. Vibrations of these changes in the closest relationships around you have a major impact too. People cannot fathom why we do things in the way we do or even what leads us to this point. They wonder where the place is in your life as you make these changes? So many questions coming from so many areas.
Do the answers ever come? Make a contract with yourself. Outline a boundary. And get MOTIVATED! Look at the situation from all angles. Look at the opportunities and the threats. Make a decision.
Watch the answers arrive? Line them up one by one. Money in your bank account just when it’s needed. The job offer you hoped for. The person to lend a hand. It’s always there, just allow and listen.